You are better off dwelling in the real rather than wasting time searching for the ideal. The actual quote is the mature lifter is better off dwelling in the real rather than wasting time searching for the ideal, taken from this post at Dave Draper's forum . I read that the other day and it has stuck in my mind. Dwelling in the real So much of the health and fitness world is about fleeing from who we are. Sometimes this is hidden or reframed as achieving a goal, changing our appearance. Often though it is a case of a deep unhappiness with who we are. There comes a time when we need to stop that and simply dwell in the real, to adopt some reality about who we are, what we can aim for. There is nothing wrong with seeking improvement but we need to be realistic. At 45 I will never play professional football no matter how hard I train. With my bone structure and metabolism I will never be a competitive bodybuilder or powerlifte...
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